"I can say without reservation that it was not the caring role which made me so ill. It was that I did it without support."
Dissociation is a way in which your brain protects you from unbearably painful, overwhelming emotions.
It is the connotations of the "r" word, and how it could be interpreted, which concern me.
"You remain in my pocket for life, supporting, guiding and aiding my recovery"
How daunting it must have been, without legal knowledge and up against four experienced solicitors. Unrepresented families sometimes describe feeling that it is a "David and Goliath" situation.
This month we were invited to give evidence to a Parliamentary Select Committee. Many of the questions and comments made by the committee related either directly or indirectly to the kind of support men in crisis are seeking.
"If you can't find the words after that, your silent presence and the giving of your time and attention communicate so much to the person. You clearly care. They matter to you. Their life matters to you."
"If we want to ensure that more patients survive after traumatic events, then crisis services need to have a trauma-informed approach."
This week the media published details of research which shows a link between climate change and suicide risk: extreme heat “profoundly affects the human mind”.
"I wanted to set up services which would be very different from anything that was currently available. My experiences showed me so clearly what was missing, and what was needed."
"Please seize the opportunity to help. Even if you doubt your capabilities to do so, you have more skills at hand than you realise."
"Despite a CAFCASS report documenting the domestic abuse, with dates of incidents, the judge gave custody of the younger children to the father."